Monday, October 31, 2011

Solo Dolo...in the City Of Angels

So I'm finally back on my own once again. It's been a little over 2 1/2 years since I touched down in LA and it's been a great learning experience. It feels like I've been out here longer, but I know I still have a lot to learn, a lot to see and a lot to live for.

I lived by myself my senior year of college and it was great. I had my own lair to do whatever I wanted to do. I could wake up to music, I could workout wherever, I could wash clothes whenever. At times it got lonely not having another person in your area but school was like my first home so it didn't make it that bad.

I kind of have the same feeling in my current apartment. I work so much that this is really more of sleeping quarters for me than a place to live. On a serious note I feel a little bit more alienated here then back at home in Indiana. Back at home I had close friends I could call up at anytime and link up with in a matter of minutes. Out here I still have a social struggle, part of that problem is work the other part is me. I still haven't branched out as much I would like to but, I am working on it.

I will admit where I was two years ago (socially) is a heck of a lot better now, but I just need to push myself to go out more. Going out more doesn't mean I have to spend the mulla all the time either. I keep telling myself that, but I look at gas prices, hahaha and they're not helping. All jokes a side I realize that I'm not in school anymore and that meeting people won't be as easy as it was by going to a class and finding people who share the same interest or going to a campus event that was going on while I was there.

So as I enjoy my new place making it my own, I will have to try to socialize more, with no roommates to help, but on my own.

2 comments:

  1. As I tell you all the time, you are one of the most hardest-working people I have ever known, and I truly admire your work ethic, and I know without a doubt, that you will go far in everything that you do.

    With that being said, I hope that you will have the opportunity to slow down and be "more in the moment" with people and make lasting connections and meaningful relationships with people.

    I'm teaching myself how to do this everyday and it has made my life more fulfilling, and made me more appreciative of the people in my life (and you are one of those people).

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  2. You can do it. I have faith. You have come quite far from 2 years ago!

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